Doula Talk Blog & Podcast
Welcome. This is a space for thoughtful guidance, honest conversations, and practical insight for the postpartum period and first year.
Here you’ll find blog posts and podcast episodes that help you make sense of sleep, feeding, recovery, and the emotional load of early parenthood. My goal is not to give you more rules to follow, but to help you understand what’s happening beneath the surface so you can respond with clarity and confidence.
Whether you’re navigating sleep disruptions, feeding challenges, or simply trying to feel more steady in your role as a parent, these resources offer evidence-informed perspective, real-world context, and support you can return to whenever you need it.
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When Feeding Feels Hard: What Actually Helps (and What Quietly Makes It Worse)
Feeding a baby is often described as something that should feel natural and instinctive. But for many families, feeding can quickly become one of the most stressful parts of the day.
Maybe your baby feeds constantly but still seems unsettled.
Maybe every feed feels like a guessing game.
Maybe you’ve tried adjusting wake windows, spacing feeds, or following a schedule, and nothing seems to make things easier.
If feeding feels harder than you expected, you’re not alone. Many families reach a point where they realize they’re trying everything they’ve been told to do, yet the system still feels tense, exhausting, or confusing.
The good news is that feeding challenges are often less about doing the wrong things and more about doing things before the system is ready.
Understanding how feeding rhythms actually develop can take a huge amount of pressure off both parents and babies.
When Feeding Feels Hard: Why It’s Not Just About the Bottle
If feeding your baby feels harder than you expected, you are not alone.
For many parents, feeding starts as something neutral or even grounding. Then suddenly it feels charged. Every feed comes with tension. You find yourself bracing your shoulders, holding your breath, watching the clock, or panicking when your baby cries, arches, or refuses again.
And almost inevitably, the questions start.
Is it reflux?
Is it the bottle?
Is it the formula?
Is it my fault?
Here is what I want you to hear clearly.
When feeding feels hard, it is rarely just about the bottle.
Before the Release: What Parents Need to Know Before Saying Yes (Guest: Carissa Guiley)
If you’ve recently had a baby and feeding has turned into a whole emotional roller coaster, first of all… I’m sending you the biggest, gentlest hug. Because when newborn feeding doesn’t go the way you thought it would, it can shake you to your core. Breastfeeding or bottle feeding is so much more than nutrition. It’s connection. Comfort. Safety. And when something feels “off” but you can’t quite fix it, that pressure builds fast.
So let’s talk about something that comes up constantly in postpartum support: tongue ties. And more importantly… what happens before a tongue tie release.
Tongue Ties, Feeding Struggles, and the Power of Myofunctional Therapy (Guest: Brittany Hageman)
When you’re expecting a baby, there are so many things on your mind: preparing for labor, setting up the nursery, navigating prenatal appointments, and figuring out what kind of parent you want to be. But there’s one topic that often gets overlooked—and it can have a big impact on your baby’s feeding, sleep, and development: tongue ties.
Why Feeding Therapy and Holistic Support Matter for Your Baby and Your Peace of Mind (Guest: Carissa Guiley, M.S., CCC SLP, CLC)
Becoming a parent is like stepping onto the wildest roller coaster of your life—one minute you’re flying high, the next you’re wondering how on earth you’re supposed to assemble a breast pump at 2 a.m. Feeding your baby should be one of those things that just works, right? Spoiler alert: not always. If you’re pregnant or navigating postpartum life and finding yourself overwhelmed with feeding struggles, let’s chat. There’s a secret weapon you need in your corner: feeding therapy. And trust me, it’s a game-changer.